So the other day my husband and I had two $10 gift certificates for Cafe Intermezzo and it appeared to be the perfect lunch spot. There was only one problem: they only accept one per table. Not willing to give up our craving for their incredible spicy cheese tortellini, I suggested we simply eat at different tables. However, there was a catch: I proposed that we had to pretend we didn't know each other and we were trying to "pick each other up". And so we did...
What I learned: although we have only been married a year, my husband and I have SIGNIFICANTLY reduced our "game". From asking what dish I was eating because "it looks good and I'll have to try it next time" (him) to eyeing him coyly with drink in hand (unfortunately, that one was me), I couldn't help but laugh as we tried to figure out the ensuing awkward conversation that followed (me, as his credit card was being returned, "Wow! We have the same last name! That could make this complicated. Who is YOUR dad?" Dan, continually calling me ma'am, and asking if I was single as I tried to subtly remove my wedding ring that was clearly displayed on my left hand). The best part was finding a way for us to leave together (turns out I asked for a ride and he agreed only if he could take me back again on a later date because my tortellini suggestion was oh-so- good :)).
The point is, it was fun. And it reminded us that life is too short to stay stagnant in the roles we've developed over the years...even if it's a little ridiculous. :)
